Nuking the Instant Oatmeal

Last weekend I left my iPhone 4 on a plane. After the initial panic, it felt a little free-ing, traveling for the next 8 hours without a cell phone.  But once I got home, when reality hit, I was at such a loss. My husband let me borrow his iPhone 3 for a little while. That was a mixed blessing.  I loved having a phone again, but was surprised at how irritated I became while using it.  It took almost 15 seconds to load my emails, as compared to MY phone which does it in less than 5.  That 10 second time difference might as well have been 10 years.

As I write this, I'm shaking my head at the ridiculousness of it all. Our world has become an incredibly fast supercharged existence, with information speeding around us in what seems to be faster than the speed of light.   Last year Google offered an option for people to UNDO an email they've sent, probably knowing that we sometimes move on auto pilot, and don't realize what we are doing until it is too late.  Intentionality has seemed to be kicked under the carpet so Productivity can have a bigger place to run.  I've often wondered how this sense of urgency will affect our children. 

Then yesterday, at a staff training event, I saw the video below. It comes to us from the New Brunswick Department of Education, and clearly explains what many of us already know:  Our children are growing up in a world that looks very different than the one many of us grew up in, and if we are going to reach them, as parents and teachers, we are going to have to learn to adapt.

Now please don't get me wrong.  I love progress and change. I'm a big proponent of technology for children, but only when it's delivered and managed in a developmentally appropriate and safe manner.   Really, it's all good.   I just wish I could keep up.
 
My brother came to visit last night, and I offered him some of my homemade steak soup.  (Recipe available upon request!)  As I was reheating it in the pot, he told me "this would go faster if you microwaved it." I thought "of course...what was I thinking?"   But now I know.  I was thinking that the few extra minutes we had in the kitchen, chatting and catching up while I made dinner, was exactly what we needed to slow us down for a little while.  I'll save the microwave for popcorn.

Do You Realize?